English language usage - How to refer to future dates
A couple years ago, Lacey and I had an argument about the correct wording for referring to upcoming dates.
For example, what does “This Sunday” mean? What about “Next Sunday”?
Lacey ended up winning that argument, for some reason, so ever since then I’ve tried to speak/interpret these phrases carefully, conscientiously trying to use what she taught me back then. As it turns out, she does seem to be right about the general rules for using these future date words. I’ve paid attention every time I’ve heard anyone mention “this {x}” or “next {x}”, ever since that discussion/argument. But it’s definitely a source of ambiguity that bothers me whenever I hear these terms used.
She told me [something like]:
When referring to the next day {x} that will occur, it’s called “this {x}”.
When referrnig to the day {x} after that, it’s called “next {x}”.
So, since today is Sunday, January 20, 2008:
- this Wednesday is January 23, 2008
- next Wednesday is January 30, 2008
*** fast forward to last night ***
We had an upcoming event to write on the calendar on the fridge. Lacey told me “Next Saturday” at 4:30pm. Since it was Saturday, January 19, 2008 when she said that, I first interpreted it (based on what I learned from Lacey way back then) as Saturday, Februrary 2, 2008.
But, she was actually talking about Saturday, January 26, 2008. I called her out on that, because it screamed “inconsistency” at me. After a brief review of what we talked about back then, I still don’t feel 100% certain of the English language rules deal with future dates.
I found a couple similar questions on Yahoo Answers, tonight:
But none of the answers on those questions linked to any authoritative Enlglish Language sources.
Does anyone know of any websites that might help me straighten this out, once and for all? A web page that even somewhat resembles an official English language rule/guideline/etc. regarding “this/next (day_of_week)” usage would be greatly appreciated. If you know of any, PLEASE leave a Comment, below! Thanks!

